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"Blue or pink" early blood/sex test - any feedback?

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IVFbeenverylucky · 29/01/2023 21:00

First, to get it off my chest, I hate the name.
Moving past that, they offer appointments for £99 from 6 weeks, to get a blood test to find out the sex and you get the results 48 hours later (blueorpink.co.uk/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIsaTpmdXt_AIVC7TtCh1sqwDZEAMYASAAEgK6JvD_BwE).
Has anyone any experience of using them? It sounds a bit too good to be true.
(BTW I really really don't mind if it's a boy or a girl - I'm just nosy and impatient.)

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Garethkeenansstapler · 21/05/2023 08:21

There’s loads of bad reviews online with incorrect results. Hmmmm, I’d give it a swerve if I ever had another baby. It seems to cause a lot of heartache, couples have done big gender reveals only to find out baby was actually the opposite sex. How do they get away with claiming 99% accuracy? 🤔 isn’t that a trading standards issue?

IVFbeenverylucky · 21/05/2023 21:00

Wow surprised this one is still going around.
I didn't do it in the end. At 12 weeks being told was likely a boy (now confirmed at 20 weeks), took away a lot of my "need to know". I think if I hadn't been told that at 12 weeks, I'd have had to do something to find out.
I have 2DDs, but was genuinely relaxed about a boy or DD3, just very impatient!

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Chocolats · 22/05/2023 14:39

@Starlordswife ooh dear, I am really sorry to hear that your blood test doesn't match the scan, I send you a lots of love and hugs, I am sure you will love your son but as @Noodles85 said gender disappointment is real, it happened to me and to my sister when she got her fourth son it happened to a friend as well, I love my kids no mater their sex but it's just a feeling I think many pregnant women have been through but they think they shouldn't feel it because pregnancy is already a blessing or mybe people around them they may say you should be grateful because you're having a healthy baby, but what they don't realize that we are grateful we know we are blessed and we love our baby but we can't ignore or deny this feeling.

indigosmother · 25/05/2023 12:52

I'm 15+4 with my second baby. With my first, I absolutely didn't want to know. Then she died, and this pregnancy is really tough. For very different reasons, it's going to be hard if it's a boy, or another girl, and I really need to know asap now so I can start getting my head around it. I haven't been able to decide what to do and have been deliberating for weeks. I was looking at this test, Sneak Peek etc, but it sounds like they can be wrong and that would be hugely difficult in the circumstances. I have no clinical need to do NIPT and it's so expensive, but it's looking like the only reliable option - unless anyone has come across anything else...?

toomanyleggings · 25/05/2023 12:55

I would get NIPT done in a few weeks. At 5 +4 is silly early to be doing tests

FlounderingFruitcake · 25/05/2023 12:55

So sorry for the loss of your baby girl @indigosmother From 16 weeks they can usually tell on an ultrasound as long as baby isn’t in a funny position. So you could just book a private scan? There are places where you can have it done by a consultant if you’d find that more reassuring than a baby bond type places.

CornishGem1975 · 25/05/2023 13:04

toomanyleggings · 25/05/2023 12:55

I would get NIPT done in a few weeks. At 5 +4 is silly early to be doing tests

She said 15+4...

If you're 15 weeks @indigosmother you'll have your NHS scan in a few weeks anyhow? If you can, I'd hold on until then.

indigosmother · 25/05/2023 13:12

Thank you. I've had five scans already, six actually as there were two different consultants on Monday, when i was 15+1. and i'll keep having them around every two weeks. turns out if your baby dies they take good care of you...
both consultants tried to see, but couldn't. and pointed out that it can be wrong at the 20 week scan anyway - which i know. i really can't take the chance that they might make a mistake, i need to know for sure and remove one extra cause for stress as soon as possible. the anxiety is extreme enough already.

FlounderingFruitcake · 25/05/2023 13:54

You might have been just too early! 16 weeks is usually when they can tell from but of course baby has to cooperate. Depends how impatient you are, if you want certainty and you want to know ASAP it’ll have to be NIPT. Nothing else has that level of accuracy. If you can afford it and it would help you then I’d go for it. But you could also ask at your next scan if they can get a good look. Sometimes they can be quite sure, especially with boys.

Amanda2125789 · 08/07/2023 00:12

Noodles85 · 31/03/2023 20:32

I got the Blue or Pink results back and it said girl! With Sneak Peek boy! Both done at home. So if Blue or Pink didn't detect male DNA like the Sneakpeek one did, either their tests are unreliable or I accidentally contaminated my Sneakpeek blood sample with male DNA. Blue or Pink have offered me another free kit when I told them about the different results so I will try again with them. I've also opted for a in-clinic test with Sneakpeek again. It's cost me a bit of money but whicheer is wrong will offer me a refund.

Am I ask what was the result in the end?
I did a blood test taken by a professional in clinic early with Pink or Blue company and emailed result came back as girl. Still dubious though..

Amanda2125789 · 08/07/2023 00:20

Amanda2125789 · 08/07/2023 00:12

Am I ask what was the result in the end?
I did a blood test taken by a professional in clinic early with Pink or Blue company and emailed result came back as girl. Still dubious though..

Oh so sorry just seen they got it wrong. Fruited to delete my comment.

Think I’m going to do the NIPPT test when I can week wise into this pregnancy as the testing for health issues is something that’s important to me, and looks like they offer a bonus of knowing gender with that. Left wondering how correct the NIPPT test result are now on gender 🤔

Noodles85 · 26/07/2023 13:31

I redid the Blue or Pink at home and they changed their result to boy. I also did Sneakpeek again in a clinic and it came back boy.

QueefQueen80s · 26/07/2023 13:35

I'm shocked some trusts don't tell the sex, never heard of that

indigosmother · 26/07/2023 22:52

Amanda2125789 · 08/07/2023 00:20

Oh so sorry just seen they got it wrong. Fruited to delete my comment.

Think I’m going to do the NIPPT test when I can week wise into this pregnancy as the testing for health issues is something that’s important to me, and looks like they offer a bonus of knowing gender with that. Left wondering how correct the NIPPT test result are now on gender 🤔

that's worrying - have you heard of the NIPT gender result being wrong?
after reading this thread, i did that, as it seemed to be the only reliable way of telling, and i'm taking it as gospel....

Tillys2592 · 22/01/2024 18:26

@Amanda2125789 did your results end up being right from the clinical draw? I’m curious as I’m booked in on Wednesday! I darent do it at home as there is 5 boys plus OH and I’d screw it up some how 🙈

Karine1991 · 02/07/2024 17:57

@Tillys2592 Hi just wondering if you done the in clinic blood test and what your result came back as and if it was correct ty x

InnermostHealthcare · 08/07/2024 09:53

Understanding Ultrasound vs. Non-Invasive Prenatal Testing (NIPT) for Fetal Sexing.

Are you expecting a girl or boy?

Ultrasound
Ultrasound is one of the most common methods used to determine the gender of a fetus. This non-invasive procedure uses high-frequency sound waves to create images of the fetus inside the womb. Typically, the gender can be determined during the second trimester, around 18-20 weeks of pregnancy, although some experienced technicians may be able to identify gender as early as 14-16 weeks.

Accuracy: The accuracy of ultrasound for gender determination is generally high, ranging from 95% to 99% when performed by an experienced technician. However, accuracy can be influenced by several factors, including the fetus's position, the mother's body type, the technician's skill, and the quality of the ultrasound equipment. Misinterpretations can occur, particularly if the fetus is not in an ideal position for viewing the genital area.

Non-Invasive Prenatal Testing (NIPT)
NIPT is a more recent advancement in prenatal care that involves analyzing small fragments of fetal DNA circulating in the mother's blood. This test is primarily used to screen for chromosomal abnormalities such as Down syndrome, but it can also determine the fetal gender with high accuracy. NIPT can be performed as early as 6 weeks into the pregnancy.

Accuracy: The accuracy of NIPT for gender determination is exceptionally high, often quoted at over 99%. Because this method examines the fetal DNA directly, it is less dependent on external factors such as fetal position or technician experience. However, while the accuracy is very high, rare cases of incorrect results can still occur, typically due to issues such as low fetal fraction (the amount of fetal DNA in the mother's blood) or mosaicism.

Conclusion
Both ultrasound and NIPT are effective methods for determining fetal gender, each with its advantages. Ultrasound is widely available and provides a comprehensive view of the fetus and its development, while NIPT offers earlier and highly accurate results by analysing fetal DNA. Choosing between these methods often depends on the stage of pregnancy, the primary purpose of the test, and individual preferences. For the most reliable results, healthcare providers may recommend using both methods in conjunction.

Summary

  • Ultrasound
- Timing: 18-20 weeks (sometimes as early as 14-16 weeks) - Accuracy: 95-99% - Factors: Fetal position, technician skill, equipment quality
  • NIPT
- Timing: As early as 6 weeks - Accuracy: Over 99% - Factors: Fetal DNA quality, low fetal fraction, mosaicism

Both methods have proven to be reliable, with NIPT offering slightly higher accuracy and the advantage of earlier testing. However, the choice of method should be tailored to each individual's circumstances and medical advice.

InnermostHealthcare · 08/07/2024 09:57

Some of the test at home kits are more prone to error due to male DNA contamination from other men or boys in the house. The Blue or Pink test is usually done as a formal blood clinic or phlebotomy blood test and avoids this.

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