Hi everyone,
So I’m 37 weeks pregnant today and have had worries about my baby’s movements for the majority of the 3rd trimester.
We had a loss just before this pregnancy which I imagine hasn’t helped my anxiety but it’s getting to a point where the worry is becoming unbearable. I’ve gone in for monitoring probably on a weekly basis but the last 2 days I’ve been in every day.
I woke up on Friday morning and my stomach was rock hard, I’d never felt anything like it before in the pregnancy. It wasn’t coming and going, but permanent and has been that way ever since. I’ve had two different doctors have a feel who have concluded that baby’s abdomen is pressing against mine which is what I’m feeling. My concern is: how can baby’s abdomen be big enough for my entire bump (top to bottom, left to right) to be rock hard with no soft areas?
I’m at my wits end. I feel I should be logical and accept the fact that the monitoring is always fine, and believe what the doctors say about the hard bump.
But something is just niggling in the back of my mind that something is wrong that is being missed? I had a scan on Thursday and all was fine apart from slightly raised fluid levels.
I feel so reluctant to go back for a 3rd day in a row as a couple of midwives have drawn attention to the amount of times I’ve been in and I feel so embarrassed and ashamed :(
I feel as though if I go back I will be treated like a crazy woman as it is not possible to have had more reassurance than I’ve had.
But still I can’t relax…
What would you do in my situation?!
Thank you for any advice for a very stressed out FTM.
xx
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Very worried and feel I’m not being listened to - please help!
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Emalouise25111 · 23/01/2023 12:02
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