I am currently 23 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. Finding out I was pregnant was such a shock as preventative measures was in place that failed but we come to terms with having another. I have been feeling so low and worried how I am going to cope with another and feelings of guilt towards all 3 of them as I will not be able to give them the individual time I would like too, feel like a complete failure already. Times are hard with my 3 year old currently undergoing assessment for autism (his behaviour can be very challenging) my 5 year old already feeling left out and having another one is seriously worrying me how they will cope and definitely how on earth I am going too. Has anybody else had similar stories and how did you manage or any advice?