Hello everyone,
I’m new here and it’s my first post. I’m super worried and need a vent today :—(
27yo FTM, 14+4. I would describe myself as healthy; normal BMI (20.03).
I just got my 1st trimester screening results (combined test) and now I’m worried & sad/angry/hormonal…
#1 Annoying 12w scan.
My 12w scan was an unpleasant experience. I was examined by a trainee ultrasound technician. She seemed even more stressed than me (and I was shaking at one point).
She couldn’t get any clear pictures, she also mistook some organs once or twice (corrected by her supervisor)…
Baby wasn’t in the right position to measure NT and I was told that I might have to come back for another scan. The supervisor took over and just scolded me from not drinking more water before the scan (HG here).
Now, as far as I am aware (just from watching the monitor), baby didn’t really change the position.
I was told to leave the room and then handed a letter, which stated that NT measured 2mm (I was 12+1).
I probably should have asked where they got this measurement from.
(Irrelevant context: That was the week before Christmas when the U.K. industrial actions were about to happen. Is there a chance that it was impossible to reschedule the scan?)
#2 Upsetting results
Got the letter today.
“Down’s syndrome chances 1 chance in 499”
Which is a “lower chance”. I didn’t get any detailed blood test results etc. so don’t know where this number comes from.
I know that I should be happy that it’s in the ‘lower’ category.
HOWEVER, I am guilty of looking up other people’s results and they seem to be predominantly in thousands or ten thousands.
1:499 for a healthy 27yo just worried me.
I’m thinking about NIPT (but it is pricey).
As far as I understand, it gives more accurate odds rather than answers. Is it worth it? Alternatively, I can now wait and worry until 20w scan.
Do you have any similar experiences or pieces of advice? NIPT recommendations (South London)?
Is 1:499 worrying or am I irrational?
Happy new year everyone!