Has anyone had an early scan show less weeks than you thought but then 12 week scan show way more?
Long story short, I finally left an abuser after years at the end of September, after my third miscarriage in august (which was caused by him). So two days after I left I had what I thought was my period, but in October I found out I was pregnant?! Called the doc, was booked for a scan as my miscarriage was 16th august and the ‘period’ was 6 weeks later (usually after a miscarriage I’ve been bang on 4 weeks). Scan was on 10th November, I walk in thinking I’m around 8 weeks (from conception - 12 weeks from date of miscarriage so was a little confusing) .. get told I am 6+4... which matches the dates of the last bleed (I’ve not been with anyone since then) and I left feeling really stressed so I called back later and asked if that was from LMP or from conception... they said they were dating from conception, but then when I went in for meds a week later I asked again and they said all scans are done from LMP and it wouldn’t have been conception date (so this is making me wonder if this is now some sort of immaculate conception or something).
Fast forward to last night (I have my ‘12 week scan’ early on the 5th December) and I’m literally woken up by movement. I have another child so I’ve gotten the whole way through pregnancy once before, with son I had flutters at 12 weeks but nothing I could feel to touch until later. So last night I thought ok docs think I’m now 9 weeks there’s no way that’s movement must be gas or something... but it was soooo strong and continued for a good while, after a while I put my hand on my stomach and now I’m in a bit of a panic again, because I could literally feel what I can only describe as somersaults.. surely not?
has anyone measured small at early scan and then measured big at 12 weeks? I’m talking like 4-6 weeks difference here I know but at this point I can’t see any other outcome 😅 I can’t go by bump as I never look pregnant until very far in 🥴
to add:
I had a 3+ clear blue in October
morning sickness was over by first week of November and then came back with acne last week (with my son I was sick 5-9 weeks then again at around 14-16 weeks)
the last date me and ex were living together was 18th September then I moved out (he was arrested finally) and I haven’t seen him since
docs are being super unhelpful with dates and it’s caused a lot of stress. My family are all pushing for abortion, honestly I’m totally undecided as I’ve had 3 losses this year and I’m absolutely heartbroken over the whole situation. For me if I’m out of the first trimester then this is an absolute no go and I’d feel absolutely terrible for ruining a healthy pregnancy after miscarriages.
The 5th is coming slower than Christmas does to a 9 yr old 😅