My friend just miscarried and I'm 7 weeks

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My friend has just had her 2nd miscarriage and I'm 7 weeks pregnant with my first. I had a number of miscarriages myself and myself and hubby were planning to wait until we were 16 weeks to tell friends.

She asked to meet me next weekend and I'm honestly feeling so guilty. She'll be so upset and I have my wonderful news. Should I tell her next week or leave it? I want to support her but I hated being around pregnant women.

Pretend you didn't realise you were pregnant at the time? Mistook spotting for period or something?

Can you tell her by text so she can process the information on her own?

Thanks all. I just don't want her to think I was keeping something from her. I wouldn't have told her before 16 weeks as hubby and I are very nervous about this pregnancy.

I'm quite nauseaus so I hope she doesn't cop it.. honestly I just want to handle this as sensitively as I can.

I know she'll be delighted for me as we have struggled for so long, but I also know how upsetting it all is.