Name changed as outing.
I'm 38+5 and had a growth scan yesterday which showed no growth at all since my last scan at 36+4.
Doppler is normal.
Last week I had 2 episodes of reduced movements and they booked me for induction at 39+2 (sunday) as I've had 4 episodes in total since 31 weeks.
Yesterday the consultant said my induction needs to be brought forward as a priority to either last night or today. The hospital say they have no slots to bring it forward at all and Sunday is the earliest they can do. Consultant said in that case to do ctg thurs+sat and doppler Friday and I'm 1st on the cancellation list.
He also gave me another option. The hospital is linked with a smaller hospital about 35 minutes drive down the motorway. This hospital can induce me Friday night, so 36 hours quicker than my current hospital.
I really don't know what to do.
I live 5 minutes from original hospital and DH doesn't drive. There is a bus from the end of our road to current hospital so he can pop home or friends/neighbours will give him a lift.
DH can stay 24/7 at both hospitals. I can drive to smaller hospital and as long as I don't have a section, I can drive us back after the birth.
I have a 17yo autistic son who will be home alone while I'm in hospital. He attends special school but can be left overnight. He can use the microwave, get a shower, feed the dog etc independently and I can get friends/neighbours to check in on him but I'm uncomfortable that DH and I will be so far away for potentially days on end. I'm sure he will be fine but it's making me so anxious.
I was induced with DS and it only took just over 24 hours but this baby is just drama and I can imagine her taking days, needing a section etc. Nothing has gone to plan at all!
I want the baby here safely ASAP obviously but then part of thinks it's a lot of stress and anxiety to get her out 36 hours faster. Nobody has mentioned outcomes or anything about waiting until Sunday so I don't know if it's dangerous to do that. I wouldn't forgive myself if something went wrong between Friday night and Sunday day.
Wwyd?