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Please help - Pregnancy after loss anxiety

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TTCRand · 30/08/2022 07:29

Hi

Bit of background story - I’m 27 and husband is 30. We fell pregnant earlier this year and lost twins at 9 weeks. I had a really long recovery with failed treatments, haemorrhages, I tested positive for 13 more weeks until last month without realising I had retained placenta (apparently they missed it at follow up scans)

I’m now pregnant again, 4 weeks coming up on 2nd September. I’m scared, anxious, yet excited. I keep thinking when will I have a loss this time? Will it be 5 weeks? Will it be 12? Rather than thinking in May I’ll be holding our baby. I know these feelings are normal after loss - but I just needed people who understand to talk to!

OP posts:
Teenprobs · 30/08/2022 07:33

I know this doesnt compare but I was pregnant with twins I lost one. I'm 22 weeks but everyday I think when am I going to lose this one?? I haven't bought anything. I can't seem to choose a name...

However please remember this is a new pregnancy there's no reason for it not to be healthy more chance than not it will be. So sorry for your loss. X

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