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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnant after a hook-up which turned into a relationship

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Mari03 · 25/08/2022 11:44

I had a crush on an extremely cute and attractive guy at my college in early February this year, and I started flirting with him a lot, and we eventually ended up having sex on several occasions.
I found out that I had become pregnant near the end of that month, and I started talking to him about it, and he seemed hesitant at first, and I was preparing for the possibility that he would not want to be involved.
However, we started meeting and talking about this on a few occasions in early March, and we ended up dating and starting a relationship, and we have been together ever since then, and I am currently 6 months pregnant.
It feels wonderful so far, but I was a bit curious what you think I should keep in mind about this situation?

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Mari03 · 26/08/2022 17:31

QueSyrahSyrah · 26/08/2022 17:25

They were a good bit older than you but this happened to my Friend; their 'baby' just got his GCSE results, they have another DC and they are very happily still together, so it can work out well.

Prepare for harder times once the baby is here though - if I were you I would start talking about that now. Where will you live? How will you manage money? How will you manage childcare? What are your plans for the future; next year, 5 years, 10 years? How will you handle the days when one of you is at their wits end, or frustrated with the other?

Don't wait until you're both tired and stressed with a newborn to have those conversations. Have them now.

Thanks, yes we are talking about it, although our parents have said that we can live with them until we have found an own home, if this is necessary.
But we will talk about it this evening in a while.

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Mari03 · 11/10/2022 17:14

I am now currently 34 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend has been true to me this whole time.
The first few weeks I did feel a bit worried that he would end up being immature and too easily seduced by all the other girls who fawn over him, but he has always seemed very sincere, and we have spent a lot of time together whenever possible.
We have got everything planned, and several of our family members have promised to help out if this is ever necessary.
We also still have sex very often, and I can say without any doubt that we are genuinely in love with each other now;
we have even had discussions about maybe having more babies together, so it is serious between us now.

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