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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Feeling pressured to get induced.

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Sunnymarie · 19/08/2022 19:39

Hello!

I wanted to ask your guys opinion on induction
I am currently 39+2 and had to go into hospital to get baby monitored and myself for high blood pressure
When I was there they asked me about babies movements and I said I hadn't felt him alot today
They took my pressure again and also said I have a fever (negative covid test)

So fast forward a few hours and a consultant comes in telling me beacuse of my high blood pressure they want to induce me righr there and then.
I said I needed to think about it.. Very sudden and I was in total shock.

He also said if I'm induced it wouldn't happen until a day or so later but I wouldn't be able to go home and then labour can be up to another 3 days.

They gave me a pill to bring my blood pressure down at 10.30pm
Today my pressure is back to normal and I had my last take at 4 in the afternoon

Anyway.. In the morning I had another consutant come in and tell me I needed an induction.. Even though my blood pressure isn't high anymore (it wasn't dangerously high before) and baby is moving fine wotj good heart rate ect.
I felt really pressured into doing it and she also said I would most likely be put on the drip which I REALLY don't want.

I stuck to my guns and said no thanks, I will opt for a sweep and il happily get my pressure checked with my community midwife everyday if needs be.

Do you think I made a stupid selfish choice
I just didn't like the idea of being in hospital that long, I ideally want to labour at home as much as I can (spesh as they told me they had no space on the delivery ward and were turning people away to other hospitals/putting on diffirent wards, and you can't have an epidural unless your on the delivery ward and she said if I had the drip I would lost probably want the epidural)

My head is in pieces..i suppose I jusy had a certain way in my head that I wanted this to go but maybe I just need to pull my big girl Pants up?

Is induction really that bad.. Or should I go with my gut telling me they were being pushy?

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mightbeyesmightbeno · 23/08/2022 08:37

Sunnymarie · 22/08/2022 19:37

Born yesterday at 6.25pm
Sweep put me in labour so no need for induction
Healthy 7lb.10ounce boy :)

Fantastic news! Well done you and your amazing body!

Dyra · 23/08/2022 21:24

Oh wow! Congratulations!

Sunnymarie · 24/08/2022 13:01

Thanks everyone, I think next time I won't be as scared.. Now I know what to expect (I know expect the unexpected) x

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