Pregnancy after chemical pregnancies.

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Hi all,
this is my first time posting but I just needed to talk to people who can relate to me.
I had a chemical pregnancy in February and another one in may, I have just found out I am pregnant again (AF due tomorrow), and I can’t stop worrying about losing another pregnancy. My only symptom is sore breast which today feels like it isn’t as bad as the past couple of days and I’m so scared. Is there any positive stories that can try ease my mind about healthy pregnancies after two chemicals ?

thank you guys :)

Please don't despair, and seek medical advice! My friend who is 9 or so weeks pregnant bled and cramped really heavily at the start for probably a week or more... but it stopped and her baby is growing and healthy now! Her hcg was really slow and bizarre as well so she had to keep going back several times before they said "okay it's rising and we can see it's all good on the ultrasound"

Thank you for trying to comfort me everyone. I’m just bleeding still, more than spotting, no cramps or clots, but still red blood.
I can’t really do much about it but wait and see, ive just checked into the hotel for our weekend away and I just don’t even want to move, why does this keep happening for me🥺💔

I'm so sorry to hear this. It's so frightening for you and you're quite right in that it's a waiting game at this point which is horrible. Are you away with your DC and DH? Can you have a bit of a more low key weekend than planned perhaps and just give yourself the time and space you need right now?

It's not over until it's over but I know the feeling you have all too well. The waiting is awful, I'm so sorry ❤️

Yeah I’m just going to chill with DH. It’s so strange because I’ve been bleeding all day but with my precious losses they’ve been like bright bright red and clots whereas this isn’t but I feel like this is the start and the rest will follow🥺 I’m trying to prepare for the worse but hope for the best it’s awful xxx

Hi all, unfortunately this is my test tonight.
I am so so devastated, thank you all lovely ladies for comforting me and reassuring me when I needed.
I wish you all happy healthy pregnancies♥️

So sorry for your loss OP. I've also had a MC at 5 weeks and 6 days, that was last year . Was devastated. Now have an almost 6 month old baby girl! I'm sending plenty of baby dust your way. Be kind to yourself 🌈 xxxx

So sorry for your loss. Stay strong and keep trying. Sending much love and prayers your way for a healthy pregnancy in the near future. Make sure you are kind to yourself, keep your loved ones close, and seek help if you feel overwhelmed - you're never alone 🌈✨🤍

I am so sorry for your loss. This is so beyond unfair.

Be kind to yourself and take good care. I hope you can take some time away from work etc to recover and allow yourself to grieve?

You may not be thinking of trying again just yet, but when you are ready, maybe make an appointment to see your GP - you would now qualify for tests (as gross as that is - it should never take this much pain for them to look into things IMO).

Sending you all the love in the world, please know you can come back here to talk whenever you need to xxx

I’ve spent all day just crying, I don’t know how to move forward from this💔

You poor thing 🤍 you're not alone my love. Try getting some counselling through Petals, and talk to your GP for help with future conception. The Miscarriage Association will be able to point you to your most local support group as well. You are so strong and you are loved, lean on those closest to you and don't let yourself fall into despair, there are still things to do and steps to take 🤍 make sure you look after yourself with support groups and counselling.

petalscharity.org

www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/how-we-help/helpline/

@PewterHeart makes some great points there. And you are definitely not alone ❤️ I'm so so sorry. The heartache is awful and I just want to give you the biggest hug.

If you want other resources for support, maybe have a look at The Worst Girl Gang Ever on Instagram, and Alice Rose (also on Instagram). TWGGE has a great podcast and Alice Rose offers lots of resources and support in the trying to conceive after loss space.

Cry as much as you need to my love xxx