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Pregnant after miscarriage and feeling super anxious.

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Mum2be86 · 06/08/2022 06:50

Had a miscarriage at the beginning of June and just found out yesterday that I’m pregnant, we’re over the moon about it but I can’t help but feel super anxious and scared this time didn’t sleep much last night, every time I go to the toilet I’m checking I’m not bleeding, anyone else felt this way and is there anything that helped you to get through it?
im only early as digital weeks indicator test this morning has come up with 1-2 weeks but first response test is showing a good line before the control line is oven showing .

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Mindymomo · 06/08/2022 07:00

It’s perfectly normal to be anxious after a miscarriage, I suffered one but had a 2 year old at the time I became pregnant again, so that did help take my mind off worrying to some degree, so my advice would be to try and keep busy, listen to music and anything not baby related.

PointyMcguire · 06/08/2022 08:23

I was the same (and to a degree still am!) I found breaking everything down into little milestones and trying to take each day as it comes really helped, as well as booking a private reassurance scan for 8wks. I also found this site oddly reassuring datayze.com/miscarriage-chart

I’m now a little over 17wks and whilst I still have the odd wobble and panic, it does get easier I promise.

Bobduncan · 06/08/2022 08:48

I'm the same @Mum2be86 , I had a MMC in May and I am now 6 weeks pregnant. I'm over analysing every twinge, ache, pain, symptoms and constantly knicker checking! My reassurance scan this week did help to an extent so I would recommend one of these xxx

stardust00 · 06/08/2022 16:31

You’re not alone @Mum2be86. 11 weeks after two MC and it’s been hard, just starting to relax more now after the good scans. Things that helped me: taking it one day at a time, staying active (walking/stretching - couldn’t do much more), accepting that I’m just going to feel shit these first few weeks and it’s okay. Be kind to yourself x

myhouseisafairycastle · 07/08/2022 11:26

I had three MCs between DS and DD. I had a light bleed at the start of my pregnancy with DD and tbh fretted the entire pregnancy. I don’t think I really believed it was going to be okay until she was in my arms. I didn’t realise until I was home with her how stressed I’d been. I was lucky because I am an older mum so had four extra scans during the pregnancy which helped to reassure me. Just be kind to yourself and as PPs have said, take each day at a time. Good luck x

Margo34 · 08/08/2022 19:58

I'm the same @Mum2be86 , just found out I'm pregnant 4w and also MC in June...but also MC in March (and MC in 2019 just before having my DC1 in 2020).

I'm bricking it. Let's be anxious together.

Do you have any DC already?

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