When do you have visitors after you baby was born? Im due baby no2 in 4 weeks. When my first was born we had stay in for the night so the next day my partner came into to see us. After that everyone turned up at the same time. My mother in law, father in law, sister in law, great aunty, my mother, my Nan, my aunty and uncle, my dad and a cousin, my grandad. 12 of them turned up at the same time and it caused arguments between both families, the midwife had to come over and say there’s to many of you here. The first day we were home my Nan was knocking out door early in the morning we were still asleep. I felt like we had no space at all. Just wondering when others had visitors x