Fat bump or baby bump?

[MyMommyParadox]

I'm 18+3 and feel SO FAT. I had a miscarriage a few years ago and that sunk me into a depression where I gained 65+lbs. Between early 2020 and late 2021 I lost all of the gained weight and got down to 145lbs. In planning for my pregnancy I had to get off of my weight loss pills, and despite exercising I gained back about 15lbs before getting pregnant. Plus I've gained 10lbs while pregnant. This is my last (4th) child and I really want to enjoy my pregnancy, but I am in my head so much saying I just look fat and to wear loose clothing. I have a bump which I didn't have pre pregnancy, but my mind just says it's fat and to hide it. The last time I was this pregnant was 11 years ago, so I really don't remember what I looked like. I was hoping to be one of those really cute pregos with the cute outfits and "glowing". Idk. Anyone just feel fat? 🥺

I'm the same. I'm quite a bit heavier than your pregnancy start weight so already carrying a bit of extra timber, but I've always struggled with my weight (mentally). I'm only 13 weeks so a little behind you and I don't have a bump yet, but my tummy is definitely rounder and I just feel really fat, like I've overeaten on an all inclusive holiday for a few weeks. I think it's just because of my relationship with my self image.

I also just feel really fat now - am at the uncomfortable stage when I don’t really have a clear “bump” (hoping that still might come) but my clothes are defs all quite tight. I’m 15+5 and think I need to start shopping for some maternity clothes! Also this heat doesn’t help - I just feel big and lumpy and flustered by it all at the moment

OP if it helps, I think this is a really common feeling 😊 those awkward few weeks where you definitely look bigger, but not necessarily pregnant can really affect you, especially in the diet culture shit show we've all grown up in. Just try to remember that your body however it looks, is bloody brilliant, it's actually growing human life and that's incredible! Wear what makes you feel good and comfortable and know that you're not alone.