My dp is literally my worst nightmare

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Right so we already have a 2 year old and are currently 35 weeks pregnant.

Recently we got removed from our flat and we have a new one lined up. We are in temporary accommodation whilst we wait to move into our new flat.

I had a kidney infection and spent a week in hospital and that week I really started to look back over my pregnancy.

I have paid for: the cot, Moses basket, double pushchair, baby carrier, Brest pads, breast pump, all my maternity things (pads pants), nappy's, wet wipes, clothes (for both children), I took us on holiday twice.

Every Friday and Saturday he goes out drinking and gets drunk ridiculously drunk. He then tells me it's my fault because I'm so difficult and controlling.

Should I leave him at this stage (I will still afford the flat I have always paid the rent) however he would get food and extravagant gifts and stuff (he didn't live completely for free). Or should I carry on give birth and then hope things change. I'm terrified of having two small children by myself but equally i know my worth and im so angry it took my bladder to completely shut down and me to need a catheter to realise what a waste he is

things wont change. This is who he is. If anything he will get worse.
Having two small children alone will be easier than living with this asshat.

The sooner you get rid of this waster the better. There is absolutely no doubt that you will be a single mum, you might as well start now before even more damage is done.

It will definitely change if you stay .... for the worse!!!

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Walk and leave the heap of shit to fend for himself your doing it all for your babies on your own anyway now so you will be fine without having to put up with a drunk every weekend. You sound like you know what you need to do make the leap am sure you’ll never look back. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy xx

You can have a life where you do everything for your kids and have to deal with an immature pisshead who doesn't give a shit, or have a life where you do everything for your kids and don't have to deal with that on top of it.

He's a bully. A shit partner. A shit dad.

You deserve more and so do your kids.

Living with one kind and loving parent is always preferable to living with two parents when one is responsible and selfless while the other one is utterly selfish.

I'm so sorry he has turned out to be a cunt. Don't waste any more time on this waster.