Please someone come and talk some sense into me. I am 41 and 9.5 weeks with DC4. DH really wasn't 100% about this pregnancy and has said he wants me to have all the tests available and if there are any major problems I think he will want to opt for termination although he would never force this on me.
Anyway my question is surely if I am 41 and have a BMI of 42 my results will automatically be high risk? Is that right, I know they obviously take other factors into consideration but really what are the chances of the result being within normal limits?
Please can someone with much more knowledge tell me that yes I will more than likely get a high risk result and then have to go for the amnio, as pretty sure I can't stretch to the nipt test, or that in actual fact there are so many more factors involved and just having those 2 things won't definitely make the result high.
To be honest I'm just so stressed with it all, we were literally on the verge or terminating, I had the tablets sent out bit couldn't do it in the end and now every little thing is just causing me more stress and anxiety. So sorry for the ramble!!