I’m 7 months pregnant and suspect my partner is cheating

[Kate2122]

I am currently 7 months pregnant and i was on my partners phone and happen to come across a video he had sent to a friend of his and another girl doing sexual acts. I haven’t confronted him yet as I don’t know how to go about it. To be honest I don’t want to confront him about it because I don’t want to forgive him. I have caught him lying about where he has been at night when he says he has been at a friends house but we share an Uber account and i see him getting Ubers from an unknown address back home, that he says is ‘ just another friends house’. He’s also lied about pasts with other girls, so it seems lying is very easy for him. I’m only 18 years old so this is all so stressful and confusing for me and I’m scared to be a single mom.

if you guys could please offer some advice on what i should do it would be greatly appreciated

Sorry this is happening :(
do you have supportive family? I think you need to prepare to be a single mum.

this must be so hard, but please walk
away now. Don't drag your child through life with a father like this.

You deserve better than this. I was with someone similar- my first child’s father, he used to lie all the time, cheat on me and gaslight me….i was miserable but thought I needed him….I felt nothing but relief when we eventually split up. We split up when my daughter was 1. He has never had much to do with her but acts like the worlds best dad when he does which is also just an act as he only cares about himself. Splitting up was the best thing I ever did. Being a single mum is challenging but so rewarding at the same time and I can say you will be ok as daunting as it seems. I was a little older than you at the time (early 20’s) but I managed ok with some support from family. I hope you are ok, you are stronger than you think x

Oh and not long after I met someone who treats me right and helped me bring up my daughter, we’ve been together 8 years and have 2 other children together now. I’ve never looked back x

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