Only just found out I'm pregnant

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I had been very unwell for awhile now and took test yesterday and said pregnant 3+. I had Laparoscopy 9 May and a bit worried it's soon. But feel I did a lot a lot rest and r
recovered well. I did have a period after which came like normal. I still can't remember my last period although thinking last week in May.
Feeling quite strange because for a long time I knew something was wrong why I wasn't conceiving and not it's happened like so fast. I am happy just trying not to think about so many different things which may stress me out.
My partner and I are keeping it between us for now. I feel like I want to tell my mum or friend but it's early.
I have bad wind and I am getting worried at my pains. The lower back pain made me do a test I never get that when due on. I felt like I had stomach cramps but more wind and feeling bloated. But I have been going to the loo too.
Woke up today feel quite nauseous and bloated etc. Need to drink warm water.
I have a teenager and forgotten what being pregnant feels like.
I need someone to talk to why I came on here. A bit scared and my partner really scared about this pregnancy going wrong
This why I want to keep it quiet.

I will phone my GP on Monday but really don't know how they do things these days.
Any advice please

My partner so happy and just scared at the moment.
I want to tell my mum but she can be quite negative so think I will wait to tell her..even everyone can't handle people being negative.

Why are you both scared? Is there health concerns? It is early days I generally told people 10-12 weeks though everyone is different. Congratulations!!!

Congratulations! I know it's hard but is there any particular reason why you're so worried?

That’s a normal timeframe to find out you’re pregnant, after a period last month isn’t it? Quite early even. Why are you worried? Your post sounds quite blue. I’m sorry that you’re stressed 💐

I just hope it doesn't go ectopic because I hady left tube taken out.
Before I had laparoscopy kept saying my right side hurts but they said it's left that's bad. But got that kind of right twinge. But don't know if it's just from left going to right..lower back bad.
It's been awhile but thanks for advice.

I'm 16 weeks pregnant and had a laparoscopy at the end of March which would have meant I was pregnant when they performed the procedure. I understand why your nervous, I spent the first 12 weeks scared I would miscarry or it would be ectopic. If it helps, try and get in for an early scan. It might help you feel a bit calmer and may help you date the pregnancy as well if you're a little uncertain. I only tested myself because 2 weeks post op I was having stabbing pains in my belly button where the scar tissue was, bloating, and cramps.

I am really concerned now got this right side pain like ovary pain.
I honestly hope this is normal pregnancy and not ectopic. I only have 1 fallopian tube already and worried.
I normally get pain right side had this before laparoscopy but found why I couldn't conceive. But was told right side is fine. Consultant for fertility said as I am nearly 40 will need IVF.
I having right right side twinging. But just hoping it's nothing bad. Normal right side pain I get. Which could be left going to right side.
Worried today my partner over the moon but doesn't want to hear bad. I just feel sore right side might need to go a&e later.

I always had the same, pain on my right side but left tube was all twisted and 'mangled' ( not sure that's a medical term but that's what the surgeon said). Mine was endo and right tube was a picture of health but when I was early pregnant I was having pain on that side again. Apparently referred pain is a thing and so where you feel it might not be where it's happening if that makes sense.
Have you tried your local EPAU? They might be able to see you this weekend and put some of your worries to rest?

I don't think they are open this weekend. I called 111 but not sure what they can do.

I am meant to work tommorow and don't think I can bring like this.

What do I do?

Another thing is I have had uti and wondering if it's that again.
I haven't told anyone but my partner and need help. Men don't get it do they.
My guy not understanding what I am saying he happy I am pregnant. Doesn't get it though.