When did you tell your partner you were pregnant??

[Sallybeed]

when did you tell your partner you were pregnant ?

I have a massive phobia of miscarriage and disappointment :(

Pregnancy 1: I found out first thing in the morning. Told him that evening about midnight when he finally arrived home from
work.

Pregnancy 2: Another early morning revelation. This time he was on a day off so I woke him at 6:30ish and told him the news.

I told him that my AF hadn’t arrived as usual and that I was spotting, which could be implantation bleeding. Did a test a few days later which said ‘pregnant 1-2 weeks’ and told him immediately. We were both in shock as I have PCOS/am fat/nearly 40 and certainly weren’t trying or ever expecting this to happen! 😳

We watched the stick together! I couldn't possibly have checked without him

As soon as the second line came up - ran out of the bathroom shouting 'I think there's two lines!' and waved the stick in his face 😂

As soon as I seen him after taking the test, which was about 30 mins after I took it. Infact I asked him to take one because I hadn’t used these tests before they were cheap ones from Amazon. I was 9 days pregnant at the time and got a faint line, my partners test was negative lol

He was there each time I tested! I wanted it to be a joint thing for us both. We lost our first baby last year when I was 33 weeks pregnant, so sadly we know there is never a true 'safe point' of pregnancy until the baby is in your arms. I am now 29 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby, and again he knew immediately. If anything, I'd say losing our son showed us both just how much support you need around you if you do sadly lose a baby, so this time we also shared the news with everyone who supported us when our son passed 💙

Oh naughty me with my above post, just trying to clarify! 😳
Then I will add, I believe you should tell your partner as soon as you know.