Hey
I’m going out of mind, I think I’ve read every single bit of information online, I’m a mix of trying to have positivity and the next worrying till I’m a mess on the floor!
i had a scan very early like 4-5 weeks and shown a healthy sac that was empty
then they scan this week I’m around 5-6 weeks likely around 5 weeks 5 days - the sonographer hasn’t told me my measurements infact she just kept saying miscarriage miscarriage over and over and put us in a room for unfortunately ladies who have suffered a loss.
it was only when I said - but isn’t there a chance I’m not showing as it is before 6 weeks? She actually then went well we could rescan in a few weeks. I left and won’t be returning to this hospital I have had 18 months of nightmare and this is just the final straw.
I have had no bleeding, no cramps nothing my levels have been good and steady I have sore boobs sickness I’m showing I have had two healthy pregnancies previous and was never scanned before 9 weeks but all of this has caused so much worry. There was never any reason to be under the EPU other than my gp pushing for an early scan as I’m epileptic , the EPU didn’t want me in it was my gp- but I just wish we had waited as the tears, the stress it’s been unbearable.
im now sat here thinking do I wait till my antenatal clinic at the end of may at a different hospital or pay private and go next week.
has any other ladies been thru this, no bleeding nothing and an empty sac just before 6 weeks??
i need to be realistic at what’s to come. My hubby is being really positive but I’m a mix of it all
sorry for the essay xx