Hi, I’m new to this forum. I am a first time expecting dad and I want some advice and reassurance basically so I hope on on the right thread. I’m more looking for ways I can also try and help my partner.
My partner and I recently had our 12 week scan, it took the sonographer a while to get a decent scan of our baby (my partner has strong ab muscles due to rising horses and the baby was in an awkward position). We finally saw our baby on the screen and to the untrained eye everything looked normal (baby is a normal CRL size etc)
After being told to go for a walk and have something extra sugary to get the baby going we came back to the room and they started over again and they found our baby had a high NT translucency of 6.2mm. We was pretty much ushered into a quiet room and they told us what this meant. My partner has had her bloods taken and the results have come back and they weren’t great. My partner has low PAPP and hcg.
The report found that our baby has a 1:8 risk of DS and a 1:26 risk of Patau and Edwards syndrome respectively.
This has broken my partner, she took a while to even come round to the idea of her being pregnant but recently she’s got extremely excited. Since Tuesday she’s not the same woman understandably and I have this tremendous guilt looming over me that I’m not doing enough when I’m trying to wrap my head around the whole situation.
I can be quite an optimistic person, especially after seeing some of the threads online about how babies can be born healthy with no chromosomal defects, but my partner on the other hand. She’s become very closed and I’m trying to find the right thing to say/do.
We have a CVS booked for Tuesday in Southampton. Since we’ve found out this news, all the excitement of expecting has gone so early.
Thanks in advance, but I needed to get this off my chest and almost feel like I’m speaking to someone about it.