Symptoms and anxiety few weeks before the scan

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Hi all…I had a MC last summer, now I am 10+6. I had a scan at 8 weeks and everything was good, saw the heartbeat. I had all day nausea and breast soreness from just before week 6 and then nausea kinda reduced just before 10th week and stopped , my breasts are still bigger but hurt less and mostly during the night( although last night didn’t hurt much). I have been having light twinges or sensations in my lower belly in the last few days.I haven’t been significantly more tired than normal. Since nausea stopped and I have been feeling too normal, I have been terrified that something is wrong and my scan is in 3 weeks- I don’t know how to stay sane until then… I read that symptoms can subside at week 10 but I am so scared that is not the case with me and that something is wrong again. Can you share if you had similar experience please?

I hear you, it doesn’t get easier. I’m 23 weeks and freak out before every scan until I hear her heartbeat.

I’ve been very fortunate that I’ve had no morning sickness and have had no problems, however, that in itself is causing me to panic that there is something wrong.

Wish there was something magical I could say to make it better but it is scary nothing about pregnancy has been easy it just means too much to me to finally be a mother after years of trying, try to relax go for a walk it’s best for pregnancies to “try” and stay calm… even if that feels impossible

Thank you - I believe you! It’s so difficult, constant fear.. 23 weeks is great and you are one of the lucky ones to not have nausea - I first worried I had no symptoms then I had nausea and now worrying when it’s gone. I wish I felt more pregnant, that would calm me a bit. I don’t know how to cope in the next 2 -3 weeks. I can’t distract myself with anything.. I will try, thank you and hope you enjoy the rest of your journey