My partner and I are expecting our first baby. My wife is 42 and I am 40. It is the first child for us both. We are currently at 12 weeks.
Our Harmony test results were good and no risk of Downs/Patau /Edwards. We thought we were all good.
We had our 12 week scan and the NT thickness was above average (3.7mm against an upper limit of 3.5mm). We have no history of medical issues in our family history.
We have been advised to have a heart scan our our baby girl at 14 weeks to see if there is any structural damage and that is fine given it is risk free.
We have also been offered and encouraged to have a Amniocentesis or Chorionic Villus Sampling (before we hit 15 weeks). The reasoning being that the Harmony test only shows results for the three most common problems.
We are so torn on this. Doctor friends of ours have said it is unnecessary given the Harmony results but now it has been offered we feel that it should be something to consider (it is in the NHS in the UK and so wouldn't be offered unless their was a good reason for it).
Our concern is obviously the risk and we have been told there is a 1% risk of miscarriage which really feels too much for us (we wouldn't get on a plane if there was a 1% risk of crashing and so when it is the health of our baby it is even more scary).
Has anyone else had this dilemma and could anyone offer some advice or thoughts as we are really torn, and frankly, stressed out of our minds. Would you think it is worth meeting with a consultant for advice as, to date, we have only been advised by an (excellent) midwife.
Thank you in advance for your kind words and support.