Hi, I'm 12 weeks pregnant. I have my dating scan on Friday. I'm feeling very stressed and anxious as my ex has started being very nasty towards me.
We were only together for 6 months when I got pregnant and from then everything was about him, how he felt.. what he wanted. Which was for me to have an abortion, that was never going to happen.
I realised that it wasn't going to work between us so I ended it. The day after I started bleeding but baby is fine and I managed to get a couple of scan photos and gave him one.
He has been horrible since I told him I didn't want to be with him. I told him I didn't want him at my scan as I can't stand the anxiety and stress and his reply was, in that case he doesn't want to be in the baby's life.
We spoke on the phone and all he could do is shout and swear at me. In the heat of the moment, after he had called me and my family all the names under the sun, I told him I wasn't sure if I actually wanted him in baby's life because of the way he was behaving and then I hung up. I know I shouldn't of said this. The next thing I knew he had posted his scan photo through my door and texted me telling me to "stay the f**k away from him". Which to be honest is fine by me at the moment.
Anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you cope? xx