not feeling in mood for sex n pregnant-wasnt sure wot thread to put this in

[daisy26]

I take it this is normal-im early days yet but i just not been horny lately i mean me and my partner don't do it lots anywayz but i just feel like i can't be bothered. My boyfriends not really tried anything but i feel sorry for him bless him, surely this can't been doing much for him. We have had it once since i found out i was pregnant, this is the longest we have gone with out, not been ages but i think long enough.

I can'tbe bothered either!

Same here Daisy, so you're not alone. Poor DH has gone almost the entire length of the pg (am 19 weeks) and he is going crazy, but tbh I just don't fancy it. I always envied my friends who were well horny when they were pg

not just me then-we both work long hours and in the week we are both just buggered-im only 7 weeks-just feel bit bad for my partner-mb have to try n make up for it-obv wen ure pregnant ure extra extra tired

my friend is due in may n she's always wanting it apprently n twice a day haha

I was off sex for the first 3 or 4 months - didn't even miss it (but DH did). Don't worry, my urges came back complete with interesting dreams.

I feel about as filthy as a pebble. i.e. not at all. Am 14 weeks (nearly) and we have had sex twice since I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks! But if past experience is anything to go by I'll be rampant by 5 months and waking poor dh in the night.

minkus that's funny. Ill try and do my best for him know we go through allot for pregnancy but u know what mean are like, they need it haha i think

wot happens wen babies born and you ave the baby in room for a few months-do people still ave sex whilst babies in the room-think id feel bit awkward

It always made me feel "wrong" if ds was awake even though he couldn't see what was going on through the sides of his moses basket. And also depends on how quickly you get the urge back after giving birth- "down there" can be fairly tender for a while and you might be just too tired (both of you!) so don't worry too much. Give yourself a bit of time - if you're only in early pregnancy you've got a while to see how you both feel. Has your partner said somthing that worries you?

Daisy26, I didn't feel horny until right at the very end of my pregnancy. Sadly by this time I was a stretch-marked balloon and dh wasn't interested.

I managed to make up for it though with some very erotic, orgasmic dreams!

As for having baby in the room - well, we had/have baby in the bed but still managed sex... that's what sofas and evenings are for!

No he wouldn't say anything newayz-its quite a quiet person

mean he's not it's haha