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Worried about abortion

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rumham03 · 04/03/2022 20:32

Hi I don’t even know where to start with this. I’m quite young and I just found out I’m pregnant today, I’ve been really worried for the past week as I had missed my period and I had a feeling the morning after pill didn’t work. I think I’m certain I want to have an abortion and the person involved would prefer if I had one too. I am just so worried about being the process. The person isn’t a boyfriend or even someone I have known for a long time they seem nice enough and are being supportive to me. I don’t want my friends to family finding out and I know I have to be in the company of someone when I go through with this. Do you think it is selfish or weird for me to ask him to be with me during? I’m not sure if I have to do this at clinic or home yet either but would he be allowed to come to appointments with me too? I feel so much guilt about it it doesn’t feel real. My mental health is already quite poor and I know this is going to have a big affect me on me, my uni exams are coming up and I don’t know how I’ll cope. Earlier I said I think this is what I want because I just don’t know. I never imagined being pregnant this young and I thought If I was in this situation i would be certain on terminating it but now this is actually happening my mind is all over the place. I know the guy has said me this is what he wants and I think he was worried when I first thought I was pregnant in case I wanted to keep it but I was adamant to him that I wouldn’t. I don’t know if I should confide my feelings about this to him. I’m just rambling on now I just don’t know what to do.

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Amijustagrump · 04/03/2022 21:47

Sending you hugs Flowers in regards to appointments he will be allowed eith you but not in the room in case you are being forced into it. I had an abortion a few years ago and although it was scary the support in the clinic was fantastic.

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