Hi,
I’m new here, long time reader but never posted before. Up until the 38w mark everything has been ok, but the fundal height measurement has shot up considerably on the growth chart. The midwife put this as “increased growth velocity” and booked me in for an emergency consultant appointment and growth scan the next day.
I turned up and the consultant really just said to me “oh you’re having a big baby!”, re-read my midwife notes to me and said that the growth scan was never actually booked … so I’d have to wait for a call, book a growth scan, then come back.
I contacted my midwife to tell her the emergency scan didn’t go ahead, but she’s now on annual leave and couldn’t solve the issue - just to try another midwife.
At 38w+4 day now, I don’t really have the luxury of time on my side. I’d much rather have an induction now or csection if there was a consensus he was likely to be big (I know these things aren’t accurate, but I’d rather that than a complicated labour. I had a difficult first birth with a much smaller, early born baby. The consultant said having a big baby isn’t a problem, but I’m extremely petite and worried about potential injuries to both me and baby from past experience and gut feeling).
Maybe I’m thinking into it too much because I feel so anxious now, but I have no idea where to go from here? It seems unlikely I’ll get the scan before I give birth, so I can’t make an informed decision about the birth… I really just feel like I’ve been left to it…
Sorry for the rant, arrgh