Baby Father Issues

[Busybees2k16]

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My ex and I was together a shy of a year to which it become toxic and he cheated on me to then the relationship ended two weeks after the break up I realised I was pregnant. ( I had always said I didn't want to have children even though I'm in my early 20s children haven't been on my agenda). But I couldn't bring myself to have an abortion to which now I have been blessed with a gorgeous child. My ex has nothing to do with child which is his decision and I'm okay with that we both live our lives by our own choices.

I made the stupid decision to sleep with other person out of anger and spite which I complete regret regardless of the situation.
I have used loads of ovulation calculators and everything to which it is saying from what I can see it is my exs child who stupidly enough I want it to be. No one knows I have doubts about the child's dad they just assume it is my exs.
The other person said that he didn't * in me but I can't be too sure he could be saying because I was pregnant.

Here are the dates
My ex 29/03 early hours in the morning
Other person 3/04
LMP 18/03 - 27 days
Please no judgement

Given your cycle length I’d say it’s far more likely to be your ex’s though only a pat test will tell you for certain

@PinkandBlueMotherofTwo

Given your cycle length I’d say it’s far more likely to be your ex’s though only a pat test will tell you for certain

Due to not speaking to my ex how can I get a test ? It is only for my piece of mind no one suspect that it isn't my ex child because I never thought it until I remembered months after founding out I was pregnant

I wanted to do a DNA test for my self due to being biracial would I be able to do one of them on child?

You should be able to do a test I think between your existing child and your new one to see if they are full siblings (I think - I don’t know much about this!)

@PinkandBlueMotherofTwo

You should be able to do a test I think between your existing child and your new one to see if they are full siblings (I think - I don’t know much about this!)

I only have the one child but thank you!

Ah - sorry got confused!!

Can you ask the other person to do a DNA test?

@OneMillionSteps

Can you ask the other person to do a DNA test?

I know thought about doing that but I completely cut him off after speaking to try and confirm it couldn't be is but I don't know whether he said it because I was pregnant I have spoken to the other person for about 8 months so I would be popping back up saying can you do a dna test The other person is very nice and do one but I think I'm scared in case it is his which I don't think it is I truly believe it's my exs

The only way to know for sure would be to do a DNA paternity test. If you want to know, I think you'll need to get one of the potential fathers to do a paternity test.

What would be an appropriate way to ask someone to do a DNA test? I wouldn't ask my ex but I could to the other person