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Mc 7 weeks what now ?

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LizzeyBenett · 21/01/2022 06:35

So after a week of spotting i had a Mc last night , I had convinced myself that some spotting would be fine but not to be. hospital took bloods and will take more Sunday morning to confirm but had internal scan no bean and I know myself I'm not pregnant anymore. This was my first pregnancy , I think the worst part maybe is people didn't know I was pregnant except two close friends so life will just go on as normal. I was so looking forward to my baby in September I had booked and early san and seen my Gp yesterday morning and all seemed fine SadHow did you pick yourself up and try again ? I don't intend on trying again for a few months .

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Lostintranslatio · 21/01/2022 07:28

I'm very sorry you had to go through this experience. It is devastating 😞 Gove yourself time to heal and go through the grief. You'll know when you are ready to try again. Sending you lots of love ❤️

Mimba1 · 21/01/2022 09:20

@LizzeyBenett I'm so sorry for your loss. I think everyone deals with it differently so let yourself do what you need to do to grieve and talk to people if it helps. It's so strange because it often feels like you're going through it alone. Ask for help if you need it. Good luck.

Mimba1 · 21/01/2022 09:31

You haven't said but has the MC completed? I know with my first I didn't know what to expect. We thought it was over so I was at home alone when I passed the sac and it was a bit of a shock. I thought it would be like a heavy period (for some it is I imagine) and want expecting to see anything like that. I wish I'd known so I could decide what I wanted to do with it. My second is buried in a remembrance garden so I can visit them. Not right for everyone of course - grief is so individual.

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LizzeyBenett · 21/01/2022 09:56

@Mimba1

You haven't said but has the MC completed? I know with my first I didn't know what to expect. We thought it was over so I was at home alone when I passed the sac and it was a bit of a shock. I thought it would be like a heavy period (for some it is I imagine) and want expecting to see anything like that. I wish I'd known so I could decide what I wanted to do with it. My second is buried in a remembrance garden so I can visit them. Not right for everyone of course - grief is so individual.
I lost it in the bathroom in the hospital and wasn't able to save it , there was nothing on the internal scan of had after that I knew the minute it happened I had lost it. Finding it all very odd today it's all most like nothing happened to my body at all very little bleeding this morning . It's all a bit jarring. But at the same time if it was going to happen I am taking comfort in the fact that it happened now and not another 7 weeks down the road .
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Cakecakecheese · 21/01/2022 09:56

I'm so sorry. Give yourself time to grieve. After I had a miscarriage my partner booked me some holistic treatments, they weren't really my thing but being able to relax and recentre did help a bit.

JenniferR2021 · 21/01/2022 21:38

I had a miscarriage in November at 10 weeks had a scan that day and lost the baby that night it was awful I'm still so gutted and so down about it 😭x

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