I had a BMI of 46 at my booking appointment.
I've had 3 scans so far:
1st private - went perfectly.
2nd early NHS due to cramping and bleeding @ 11 weeks - went perfectly.
3rd 12 week NHS...
My 12 week NHS scan went appallingly because baby was head forward and feet back. Nobody mentioned that even in this position it should have been possible to get readings. Nobody mentioned my BMI at all either.
The midwives just said that baby was in an awkward position and that's that.
I left with no pictures and no nuchal screening.
Later on, my badger notes were updated to say it was impossible to scan me due to BMI. I was surprised because it wasn't mentioned while I was there. I assume they don't like saying it to your face.
I don't typically carry much weight around my middle and so I thought my scans would be normal but now I'm really fretting.
It's my 20 week scan v soon and I'm now absolutely convinced that they won't be able to check for abnormalities or tell me the gender.
Should I just book privately instead?
Did larger ladies here find that they weren't actually able to be told about abnormalities and gender before birth?
Really confused because I've been told that I'll be getting extra scans due to my size but it equally seems that scanning doesn't work on bigger women. My trust do not offer transvaginal.
Any advice or reassurance is gratefully received. Thanks so much.