Baby shower?

[SweetPeaGirl]

I'll be honest - I've always thought these are a bit cringe.

But now my family wants to do me one, and I'm wondering. I like the idea of getting the people close to me together to celebrate my baby. But I don't want those stupid games and I really don't like the idea of asking for stuff. And by that time I'll have everything anyway!

Would it work to do a sort of 'baby shower' but no games and no gifts? Basically just food and company?

Does anyone have any experience of this? Or opinions in general?

I didnt want one either but SIL threw one. Was just a BBQ with friends and family, no games. People bought the baby stuff but there wasnt a list or anything. It was really nice and chilled.

Two groups of friends are doing this for me ( one virtual and one in person) and I think that’s totally fine!

I’m the same as you, wouldn’t be comfortable with gifts/games but really like the idea of meeting up! I think once you/the organiser makes it clear to everyone exactly what’s involved it’s fine!

Stupid games aren't required at all!!

A shower is a specific occasion to shower with gifts, and you can have whatever sort of party you like alongside.

If you don't want gifts, don't call it a shower.

Nowt wrong with just having a party if that's what you want.

Maybe rename it a pre baby meet or catch up as shower implies gifts. A nice afternoon tea or a gathering at home depending on budget and usual practices in your family/friendship group?

Yes just say I don't want a baby shower but let's all go for a nice food and drinks somewhere

My friend had a pre baby get together, just a nice meal with friends. I'm trying not to think too far ahead but I'd like something like that, not tacky, just a chance to see everyone, maybe afternoon tea somewhere.

We had a baby party with food, drink and pink balloons but no games. Some people brought gifts but never helpful ones!

My friends threw me a surprise baby shower. It was afternoon tea at a hotel, with no gifts and no games. It was lovely!