Since being pregnant, me and my husband have barely had sex. Maybe once every two weeks-month, and if it's not sex then just oral.
If I'm being honest, I don't really care, as I'm tired and not feeling up for it anyway. I think it's more the fact that he's not initiating at all, hasn't since I've got pregnant and it's making me feel unattractive. He didn't initiate that much before but since pregnancy it's zero.
My husband is affectionate in other ways, we hug in bed, kiss, he gives me foot rubs/shoulder massages and he's not distant or anything. He went all out to make Christmas special this year too and he was lovely.
When I broach the subject he just tells me not to worry and nothing is wrong and that's it, doesn't say anything else. Doesn't say why he doesn't initiate and making me paranoid.
Just wondering if there is something wrong or if I should just chill out. I'm 5 months pregnant with our first.