Hi
Congratulations on your pregnancy :)
I'm a chronic migraine sufferer too - normally around 10-15 a month. I was on 30mg Amitryptline and 10mg Rizatriptan (similar to sumatriptan) prior to pregnancy.
In my first pregnancy, I found it hard to get anyone to give me a firm opinion on what to do. So I did my own research (I work in medicine) and decided to try and cut out Amitryptline and switch to sumatriptan, which has been studied more. I couldn't manage on no Amitryptline so went onto 10mg dose and that was okay. At the time, based on retrospective studies of mums who took it there was no evidence Amitryptline causes birth defects - other antidepressants do carry a small risk. Sumatriptan was considered safe anecdotally but no trials had been done. That baby is 6 years old this month and she is completely healthy and thriving in school.
2nd pregnancy (this one - due in 2 weeks) - this time I came off the Amitryptline and Rizatriptan, but I had neurological side effects (muscle spasms/tremors) to a morning sickness medication I was prescribed. I was then prescribed 50mg Amitryptline for those symptoms (not the migraines). GP, Obstetrician, Perinatal Psychiatry and Neurology all said it was safe, and would be safe on higher doses too (100 -150mg was mentioned) if needed. However they are not keen on me taking a triptan this time - presumably because we try to limit the range of medications in pregnancy and the Amitryptline is mostly working (I have 1 migraine a week).
In my first pregnancy it was really frustrating trying to get a straight answer - no one wanted to stick their neck out and advise medication in pregnancy - but this time I'm satisfied that everyone has said Amitryptline is safe in pregnancy if you need it. Obviously it is better to not be on it, but you also need to be well enough yourself to grow a baby and in my case no one knew whether the neuro symptoms I was having might affect baby. The triptans seem to be anecdotally safe if needed, but it's a balance of trying to limit how many meds you are taking.
Like you I would want someone to direct me on what to do - I ended up changing GP in my first pregnancy as they would not help at all. You can always ask your midwife for a obstetric referral for their opinion.
You might also look at the Cefaly device - this is basically a TENS machine for the cranial nerves and blocks migraine signals. I find it really helpful during an attack. It is expensive but I use it daily to reduce attacks too and at least for me it works.
I still have some of the research papers I looked through on migraine and pregnancy - here are some links (and webpages) that might help:
www.medicinesinpregnancy.org/bumps/monographs/USE-OF-TRIPTANS-IN-PREGNANCY/
medicinesinpregnancy.org/Medicine--pregnancy/Amitriptyline/
wchh.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1002/pnp.137#:~:text=Amitriptyline%20can%20be%20used%20during,sustains%20the%20benefits%20of%20pregnancy.
www.e-lactancia.org/media/papers/Migra%C3%B1aBF2013.pdf