PLEASE ANY ADVICE ?BFP very soon after ectopic that ended naturally

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Hi, I had an ectopic pregnancy 30th October that ended naturally... i had a negative test a week or so, after that I had unprotected sex with my partner 27th November, seen Mt doctor 1st December and me and partner agreed not to do it again until next period come. Seen my doctor again 15th December, the day before I took a pregnancy test as I still hadn't had my period and i knew she wpuld ask, within seconds it was a BFP, when I seen my doc she sent me tonthe EPAU unit for a scan, when I got there the doc did an internal and was happy to confirm it was a new pregnancy etc but couldn't do a scan as it was too early(which is fine) and I didn't have bloods taken or anything. But have to go back on 29th for an early scan as they are concerned that it was so soon after me losing the baby. Just looking for any advice/reassurance off anyone who has had a similar situation? My family is mostly women and no one has experienced this before, not many of my family or friends have suffered a miscarriage so feeling very alone in it all!

Any advice or anything bwould be appreciated so much

Also this evening, I went for a wee and there was some reddish discharge, last time it started as been brown and then gradually went to red. But this time it was just red straight away. I have no symptoms of pregnancy, but I took a test just and it was within seconds BFP. I'm nit in pain but I have like a dull ache feeling kind of. Please any advice or just someone to talk to? Feeling alone and scared

Hello, I'm sorry about your loss also congratulations on your pregnancy. This happened to me, in may i got a positive pregnancy test after I missed a period. It ended in what they called a chemical pregnancy two days after my positive, before they explained I had never heard of one. I had bloods taken till eventually there was a bleed, the month later I didn't have my period, I found out I was pregnant again. I went to the doctors who took a urine sample and confirmed another pregnancy. Wouldn't scan me as said I was to early! I had a heavy bleed, (tmi) more of a period, I had just got out the shower, to realise blood drops all over the floor I had no pain what so ever. I instantly went straight to the hospital, got checked out, but wouldn't scan me till the Wednesday ( this was a Monday night) so a very long two days to wait! Turns out they couldn't work out why I had a bleed that heavy but my baby was perfectly healthy! I'm now 23+ 5 weeks! This also happened with my first son who is now 4, both times I've have a bleed between 5-7 weeks. Also with my son the bleed was brown, with this pregnancy the bleed was bright red. I'd definitely go get checked out because it's better to be on the safe side, I hope you have a great pregnancy ♥️

Thank you so much for your message! I'm sorry for your loss also. We'll I think I panicked a bit with the bleeding as it was only slight and didn't see it again. But if anything else happens I will call the epau. I wish I could enjoy pregnancy haha! This has been such a rollercoaster of a journey, I just have everything crossed it works OK this time. The last pregnancy was planned but it was my first pregnancy and my first loss, and it was all within a week of finding out by end of the week it had all gone south! And now with this new miracle I'm looking for a problem

Got my fingers crossed for you🤞🏽 honestly go and enjoy your pregnancy, my son was planned, my chemical was planned but the one I'm pregnant with now was a little miracle, although we was trying I didn't realise I would get pregnant the next month. It was such a whirlwind of emotions, my partner refused to believe it. We just kept thinking the worst would happen. We waiting for the 12 week scan to make sure it was all real congratulations again 🙌🏽♥️

Thank tou so much for your words. You don't know how much they have helped. I wish you all the luck in your pregnancy and I send my prayers that everything goes well for you