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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Did anybody get more sleep with a newborn than 3rd trimester? Finding so hard

32 replies

Barleylife · 15/12/2021 16:54

37 weeks & not sleeping more than hour at a time - really affecting me physically & mentally. I can’t imagine this getting even worse post partum

Have heard magical myths of women feeling actually more rested after birth as they sleep more even with a newborn - anyone had this happen ? Feel like I’m going out of my mind

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MuchTooTired · 15/12/2021 21:17

I slept so much better with twin newborns than I did for the last couple of months of pregnancy. It was so much easier, I could move!

Isit2021yetplease · 15/12/2021 21:25

Yes yes! I slept so badly in 3rd trimester and having a newborn was so easy by comparison!! I was absolutely huge by the end (she was born over 9.5lbs Shock) but I think her huge size meant you could fill Up her belly so she’d sleep 5/6/7 sometimes 8 hours on a row from birth so I felt like I had more energy than I had in months! I woke her to feed for a bit then realised she was the size of many 3 month olds so she’s be fine…! At 6 months now though I can only dream of such long stretches of sleep…!!

MollyBloomYes · 15/12/2021 21:48

I don't know about more sleep (although I quickly discovered how to breastfeed lying down which was a lifesaver) but there is no tiredness like pregnancy tiredness as far as I'm concerned. I would take having a newborn over the absolute bone crushing soul sucking weariness of pregnancy any day. You're nearly there OP

Twizbe · 15/12/2021 21:51

I had horrific pregnancy insomnia. I might have had broken sleep once baby was here but at least I could get to sleep. While pregnant is just sit there (I had to sleep sat up due to bad heartburn too) and count the hours.

WheelieBinPrincess · 15/12/2021 22:02

No.

DS was breech and his head under my ribs was so uncomfortable I barely slept, but I did rest, I was also up and down all night to wee.

DS is now 13 weeks old. And he’s never slept for more than two hours at a time. If he régresses from that Im going to leave him outside the local fire station. Hé naps, randomly, usually while being pushed along at a good pace in his buggy.

So I’ve not really slept for about 4 months. Sorry. You might have better luck, it’s extremely random as to what baby you’ll get.

Thatsplentyjack · 15/12/2021 22:04

Yup, me. I was up most of the night for the last few months. Up and down to the toilet about 40 times a night, in agony, could hardly move. After she was born she basically oy got up for one feed during the night.

TheMagicDeckchair · 16/12/2021 13:25

I had rubbish sleep in the last trimester of my twin pregnancy. Then once they were born, I had more rest as they slept for 3 hour intervals overnight, and I wasn’t dealing with an enormous bump.

Unfortunately they got worse with age and at 7.5 months I am pretty exhausted with crap night sleep, teething and leaps.

Still not as bad as the last trimester of pregnancy though!

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