Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice about a situation I'm in at the moment.
For some context, I currently work for the NHS in a patient facing role. My role currently means that I switch teams every 6 months for experience but I want something more permanent.
At the beginning of November I was approached by an old colleague (let's call her A) about a job coming up in her team and which she wanted me to apply for. This role is a Band higher than my current role with more responsibility and a pay rise. It came at the perfect time, I was feeling so down about my current role and I had always wanted to go back and specialise in this area and work with this team again.
'A' helped me prepare for the application and interview. At this point she told me the team had been struggling due to poor staffing and a large caseload. Both 'A' and another member had threatened to leave unless they hired someone new. This didn't bother me as I really wanted the job and knew I could help. The team itself is a very young team, currently 2 are recently married and 2 returning from maternity (and part time). I am also recently married. One member expressed concerns to 'A' that 'A' would be leaving on maternity soon and that if I join I also might leave soon. I brushed this aside at the time and didn't say much as it didn't bother me.
Fast forward 1 week later, I've applied and I'm waiting to hear. Then I find out I'm pregnant (currently 8 weeks). Baby is not planned but we are so happy. Then the anxiety hits in - should I still apply? Or will the team be angry? They are so short staffed and I don't want to cause problems. As my role is patient facing I know that I won't be able to fulfil my role properly past 28 weeks as that's the current recommendation following risk assessment.
I decided to go ahead with the interview and then decide. I got the job and accepted. I think I was the only one who applied and they are now going out to advert again to try and hire another as one member has handed her notice in.
Am I being selfish by accepting this job? I know I am within my rights to accept, but I know the team so well and I don't want to put them under more pressure by having a staff member who's useless after a couple of months. I feel so conflicted between what is right and what I feel is morally right.
What would you do? If you took the job, when would you tell them you're pregnant? I am 12 weeks at the beginning of January.