Measuring at 9w+3 days- anything I can do read to make me feel less anxious?

[Suprima]

I have been plagued by chemical pregnancies and an early MMC that didn’t grow past 6+1 (discovered at 10 weeks).

I am pregnant again, and as of Saturday I was measuring 9+3 (3 days ahead of the 9 weeks I am at). The sonographer said he couldn’t tell me that everything would be fine, but it all looked ‘perfect’ and baby was moving. He said the size of baby now lessens the risk percentage considerably.

I am still so scared the point where I am making myself unwell. I have tried counselling but it hasn’t been helpful, as the counsellor is not scanning me and can’t tell me that my baby is fine.

Is there anything I can read or digest which would make me feel a bit better, or relaxed?

once you're past the 8-9 week point and can see the heart etc your risks reduce down from about 30% to less than 10%. i don't think they can ever say it will be fine. but the chances are good from here on in.

The three days are neither here nor there and that'll change a lot until 12 weeks when they set it

@Bells3032

once you're past the 8-9 week point and can see the heart etc your risks reduce down from about 30% to less than 10%. i don't think they can ever say it will be fine. but the chances are good from here on in.

The three days are neither here nor there and that'll change a lot until 12 weeks when they set it

Thank you. Xx

I totally understand after a mmc last year. Have you tried the miscarriage odds reassurer?

datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer

At 9+3 your Probability of not miscarrying is 96.9%! The odds are most definitely in your favourite at this point.

Wishing you all the best!

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