@LookAtMissOhio I know exactly what you’re going through and it’s hell. The worst thing I did was Google pictures. I sobbed for days. We then decided that our baby is healthy everywhere else that we should still be happy because we are still having a baby and there’s nothing wrong with him unless the bloods say so. I repeated ‘my baby’s blood tests are normal’ in a happy voice until I actually started to feel excited. I trusted my gut feeling and write this down on my pinboard in our bedroom, so I said it, saw it and felt it hundreds of times a day. This did help me but may not help others.
We didn’t see our baby’s legs until our 20 week scan. I specifically asked to see them but he was lying in a very difficult position. The man that did the scan called us back in and explained the femurs are short and bowed so we had to go to FMU for a specialist scan. We have now had three scans there and a blood test that took 1 month to get the results.
20 week scan femurs measured 25.6 mm 3 standard deviations below average.
23 week scan femurs measured 32.9 mm
25 week scan femurs measured 36.5 mm
FGFR-3 bloods came back as normal his femurs were no longer bowed at the 25 week scan (his legs were actually stretched out for the first time with his feet next to his face) they said they can’t rule out the rarest forms of skeletal dysplasia (this is to cover their backs) but it’s likely to be normal variant. They are still showing short but showing steady growth. Back to FMU in 6 weeks. They apologised for the stress it had caused.
I’m 5ft 2, my husband is 6 ft with thighs the same length as mine. There wasn’t scans when he was born so his parents may have experienced the same if there was.
We have to go for weekly growth scans now but we have been advised that his weight may not calculate correctly because it’s established from leg length and tummy circumference. His estimated weight was 1lb 4oz at 25 weeks.
He is incredibly cute on the 3D scans and I can’t wait to meet him. We’ve agreed that nothing is coming out of my uterus until 4/4/22. I’ve also written my predictions for date time and weight at birth on my pin board and keep repeating that too.
Please let us know your progress and I hope it’s a positive result like ours.