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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Seeking advice please

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Mummyjo9 · 21/11/2021 21:01

I’m really confused and seeking advice. I’m 5 weeks pregnant with partner of 9 months. Our relationship has been up and down due to both of us struggling with anxiety and probably taking things out on eachother . I have a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship in which the dad doesn’t see. My now partner is amazing with my dd. I’ve just found a new job in which I start tomorrow and at the same time I have just found Out I am pregnant. The pregnancy wasn’t planned but my partner wants to keep the baby. I also want to keep the baby but I know the realities of what it means and currently I live in a two bedroom flat with my daughter. So worried about starting a new job, the space of fitting another child in a flat and also the affect having another child would have on my daughter as she’s use to it being just us two and my partner here sometimes. I told my mom about the pregnancy and her response was that I need to get an abortion and that I’m going to ruin my dd life if I go ahead with the pregnancy due to not being stable financially or the relationship being fairly new. I just don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I can speak to my partner but he wants this baby and wants to provide so I don’t want to upset him.

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SouthwestSis · 21/11/2021 21:31

Don't let your partner pressure you into a decision you are not ready for OP.
Could you talk your feelings through with somebody more independent?

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