Hyperemisis help

[Dizzysheep]

Hi all I’m really down in the dumps for the last couple of days over my hg and if another person tells me mainly my well meaning mother tells me it will get better at 12 weeks I’m going to scream. I shouted and cried at my mum last night cause all she keeps saying to me is I’m nearly there nearly at 12 weeks it will stop then now I feel guilty about shouting at her but what makes it worse is how she says she was sick until she gave birth!! I’m so fed up all I’ve done for 2 days is cry I’m soo scared I’ve lost the baby too as I keep wiping brown. Been to the docs had 4different medications which help a little bit much for a day or two then stop I don’t know how I’m going to cope for the next 31 weeks at this rate 😭 sorry for the rant

I’ve been where you are and I’ve wanted my 3rd baby so much, I suffered with extreme hyperemisis and at 6 weeks decided to have an abortion the relief then a year later I accidentally got pregnant on the pill! I was happy but again 6 weeks and I was so I’ll another abortion, I don’t care what people say it’s like living through 9 months of death! It’s horrendous and you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I wish I carried on but I couldn’t work I would lose everything I worked hard for. I had hyperemisis with both my girls, no drug works if someone said to me you’ll be in hospital on a drip for 9 months I would have taken it. I thought I could see someone private anyway a new drug has come to light and now been legal in England as the dr. I don’t think k could ever be strong enough again