I'm not sleeping and OH is angry with me

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I'm 20 weeks so starting to get a bit uncomfortable now, third baby. I didn't fall asleep until quarter to 6 this morning. we woke up late but managed to get the kids there on time.I've took another day off and I was off Friday aswell.

He's angry with me because I'm messing up our "routine" he's supposed to have his brother over today but feels like he can't now because of me. I've said it's fine and il just stay in bed.

I honestly feel like he hates me, he said this pregnancy has ruined us etc.

I'm finding it hard to keep up with the kids and their homework but I managed it last night.

He just makes me feel so shit about everything as if I don't feel bad enough as it is.

I'm so sorry- your partner sounds absolutely horrific. I've always been suprised in my relationship how you can hate a person you love so much for the stupid stuff they do and say. I have sleeping problems and I get told off for going into work after having slept only a couple of hours (because I have to think of the baby). After telling him that by saying stuff like that he's actually making everything a lot worse because the pressure of going to sleep and the anxiety of not sleeping is keeping me up- he's stopped. Maybe that may help for you? I hope you get some rest today x

Oh I'm sorry hun xx :( sounds stressful. He should be making sure you're comfortable and well, not getting snippy at minor things. You're growing a human for christ's sake! That's tiring work! Sometimes routines have to adjust, and you won't be pregnant forever so it's temporary anyway. I know it's probably stressful for him too, but he needs to pull himself together and learn some perspective.