We went for a private scan at 6+2 and saw a little blob with lovely heartbeat. It was measured at 5+4 however. At 7+2, I started bleeding lightly then the cramps started. This being my 3rd miscarriage, I knew the drill. At 7+3, the bleeding and pain intensified so I went to EPAU, who scanned me, there was a bigger blob than before however heartbeat appeared fainter than previous scan. EPAU measured at 6+ weeks but there was blood surrounding the sack. They said it was a threatened miscarriage and to wait it out for a week to see if I passed it, to come for another scan in a week to see where we stand.
I'm devestated.
I know there is very little positive outlook for this little bean after seeing that faint heartbeat, looking like it is on its way out.
We have a toddler and in my mind since bfp, I've imagined introducing him to baby, them eventually playing together and everything else you get excited for with a new baby. It just feels so unfair that it won't happen with this pregnancy.
My DP is taking the positive approach as there was a heartbeat but as he wasn't allowed in with me, he is taking the positive from what I've said, rather than the Dr saying this doesn't look viable.
Has anyone had similar which turned out favourably?