DD2 is due first week of December. However growth scans have shown her growth has dropped off and she's now very small - 3rd centile down from around 40th initially.
I have a final scan booked in a week where they will make the decision if she needs to come out asap due to possibly not growing properly.
Originally after a traumatic 3 day hospital birth with DD1 I had decided on a home birth. This is looking extremely unlikely now as I am under the consultant and baby is currently only 4lbs.
My options are:
- Go against medical advice - refuse induction and keep her inside until natural labour occurs with twice weekly monitoring.
- Agree to be induced at 37 weeks.
- Opt for an elective C-section between 37-38 weeks.
If you had the choice, what would you do?
I want to do what is best for my baby but I'm really worried about the whole thing. My last labour was extremely painful and resulted in a bad tear which took 12 months to heal. Induction is likely to take at least 2-3 days for the baby to arrive, as they start with the 24h pessary and go from there plus may need a few days in hospital to check her over. I've been advised the average time from admittance to baby being born is 48h, plus whatever the stay would like afterwards with a possibly underdeveloped/low birth weight baby. My partner can't stay with me until I'm in active labour so I'll be on my own, and won't see DD1 who is only 4, for potentially a week, I'll miss her so much. But then I'm also terrified of the idea of surgery and how the recovery will be and how I'll manage with a newborn and 4 year old. I don't really like any of the choices! My partner has just started a new job so he won't get any paternity leave, though hopefully our family can help out as much as possible.
If anyone has any experience it'd be greatly appreciated, particularly if you've experienced an induction and/or C-section and would have a preference of the two.