Thank you so much everyone for such thoughtful replies, and for making me feel less alone today.
@soughsigh I'm so sorry to hear you went through this too. I've decided to go ahead with CVS, but thanks for the warning that there are some instances where it's not possible – at least I'll be a bit more prepared if that happens to me.
@VitalsStable The Harmony test is a brand name for NIPT, which I've had and which very sadly suggests my baby does have Down's syndrome. The CVS/amnio is just the NHS's suggested follow-up as they class NIPT as a screening test, not a diagnostic test, but they have warned me that as the NIPT is so accurate with Down's they expect any further tests to give the same result.
@PurpleEchoLamp @doadeer @YumLemonCheesecake I've followed your lead and told the hospital I want CVS as it can be done more quickly. Waiting for the NIPT results was horrendous so I don't want to prolong things even further. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and your kind words.
@NotMyDayJob Thank you so much for your kind words too. Every single lovely person here has felt like a lifeline to me today in a time of utter darkness.
@chillichutneysarnie That is hugely helpful – thank you so much for finding and sharing that. I've told the hospital I want CVS now and that makes me feel much more confident in my decision – thank you.
@Margaritawithlime I am so deeply sorry to hear you went through this too. If it's not too personal a question can I ask if you continued with the pregnancy? I've been told to expect CVS/amnio to confirm my NIPT results rather than change anything so we have some difficult decisions ahead.
@Thefuturestory Thank you for this – the screening midwife has recommended the same organisation and I'll definitely check them out. The NIPT is deemed very accurate for Down's, but as I am sadly unlikely to continue with the pregnancy I have to have either CVS or amnio to confirm the diagnosis.
Thanks again everyone for taking the time to reply. This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through and not many friends even know I'm pregnant yet, let alone facing this, so the support I've found here helps hugely x