Couldn't wait to get pregnant now I'm anxious

[19annie86]

I really couldn't wait to get pregnant and every month when my period came I would feel down. I got pregnant and was really happy, had a miscarriage at 8 weeks, got pregnant 2 months later, it's something I always wanted. I'm now 17 weeks, I didn't think to much but now I'm starting to show and have been given information books about birthing, feeding etc I am starting to feel anxious about the thing, obviously I can't wait to have a baby but I'm just feeling scared and anxious to be honest, anyone else feel like this

You’re not alone @19annie86, I feel the same. I’m 16 weeks and so so happy to be pregnant but laid in bed crying last night because in one moment I was anxious as to whether the baby was ok and then next as to whether we’ve made a big mistake having a baby 🤦‍♀️ I’ve woken up feeling a lot more level beaded this morning and grateful my husband slept through the whole thing!

Aww I think this is normal especially with first babies, it's a big life change and the fact you are overwhelmed about looking after a baby shows how seriously you are taking your soon to be new responsibilities. You will find your feet and own routine when baby arrives try not to worry and enjoy the next chapter. I hope you continue to have a healthy pregnancy until your baby arrives and fills your world with joy x

I'm 15 weeks pregnant with my first and I feel the same as you.

I was desperate for a baby, particularly after a traumatic ectopic pregnancy earlier this year. Now that I am pregnant, I'm utterly terrified.

I went to visit a friend yesterday and she has a newborn baby (her second). Watching her interacting with her toddler and dealing with her baby at the same time and making it all look so effortless, made me really anxious. I was sat there thinking, "Fuck. I'm not cut out for this". It's really bothering me that I'll be no use whatsoever to my baby when they arrive.

Hi hun

Its very common what you're feeling.
I'm nearly towards the end of pregnancy and felt exactly the same, even though I had a late loss and was desperate to be pregnant and have a baby.

These feelings are very normal and some stay with you throughout!

Just make sure you speak to people around you and have support when needed.

Best wishes x

Thank you all for your responses. I know its natural to feel anxious. It's just all new to me, and some days I'm completely fine. Thank u all again x

I feel exactly the same OP. I'm anxious about the whole pregnancy. It's actually starting to get me down. You're definitely not alone.