Cats and new baby - looking for success stories [title edit by MNHQ]

[Fagin99]

I'm 16 wks pregnant with my first baby and my beloved cat died two months ago. I was distraught as I'm the kind of the person who needs a cat in their life; they make such a positive difference to my wellbeing.

I mentioned to my mum that I was thinking of getting another cat and she freaked out and said it would sleep in the cot and suffocate the baby (she's from that era and not an 'animal person' so doesn't get my love for cats).

Whilst I know she's being somewhat OTT, it's made me worried and sad at the idea of not having a cat. Obviously the baby's welfare is my top priority, but I'd like to hear from anyone who has successfully had a cat and a baby. What precautions did you take to make it work?

Thank you in advance x

My cat was a proper mummy's boy lap cat until my LO came along 7 months ago. He is still affectionate towards me but gives LO a wide berth in the main. She loves watching him and will reach out her hand if he walks past which he will sniff but he's been far better than I thought he would be. I was expecting sulks, hissing etc but he just keeps his distance in the main