Hi all,
I'm 26+4, age 38, and the NHS combined test at 12 weeks gave me a 1:3900 chance of baby having Down's. I was originally booked to have the Harmony test but after getting the NHS results, decided that they were pretty decent and the further testing and waiting for results would not help my anxiety (am being seen by the psychologist for my anxiety, through the maternity unit). I'm now sitting here really regretting my decision, reading thousands of MN threads by people smugly revealing their amazing experience with the Harmony test, talking about the NHS test as if there is no point getting it because it is worse than useless and talking about their 'perfect' babies born without Down's, as if a baby with it is somehow not perfect. It is generally making me really anxious. Yes, the obvious answer is not to read the threads but anxiety is the beast that it is and it keeps compelling me to search. Any advice about whether my regret is justified would be amazing. Have I made a stupid mistake in trusting the NHS test and thinking that the odds I was given were good?
Sorry, head's in a spin.
Zx