Positive then negative

[Tashaann99]

Hey guys I’m new on here I was just wondering if anyone could help or give me some reassurance because I’m going absolutely crazy and struggling.

So last week I took 3 pregnancy test 1 including a clear blue digital with the amount of weeks they were all positive and the clear blue said 1-2 weeks….. (I know very early) but the excitement was so unreal as my body has experienced a lot of trauma for years which I can only blame myself for but anyway I never thought it could happen this would be my first…. Until 2 days ago I woke up to abit of blood I panicked so so much I rang doctors they told me to go up to a+e… got there and they took bloods and a urine sample… the doctor who told me go to a+e said to drink a lot of water before going up so I did…. Nurse took urine sample which was obviously very diluted came back negative I was so scared but they said they would have to go off my blood result so sat there all day a total mess could not stop crying, doctor called me and ask when my last period was I told them but I asked what’s going on she said that they could see something in my blood test but they needed more reassurance so they were going to ask the genealogist to take a double look at my results, within three minutes of the doctor leaving me they called me back again (made me think did they even contact them) told me that they said it might of been a false positive and if I was to take another test in a week or 2 and its positive I need to go back up.
I told them I took three tests though… they didn’t really listen to me I generally felt as if they were just rushing me out the door… the questions I asked never got answered I’m heartbroken and sat here thinking all sorts but with no answers. I will be taking another test next week to double check… yesterday the blood was a little more heavier but today has reduced massive hardly anything

Has anyone else gone through something similar to this? Does anyone have any suggestions on what’s going on? I don’t no what to think right now my eyes are hurting from crying so much 😭

Oh this sounds really tough. Sending you lots of love. I had positives and then negatives, and unfortunately had miscarried. I didn't have a proper bleed until my next cycle.

If I were you, I'd do a pregnancy test first thing in the morning. If that one is negative then I think it's likely that you've miscarried. I'm so sorry to have been so blunt, but it sounds like you've had a lot of conflicting information so I thought it best to be clear 💕

One thing that my obstetric doctor pal told me was that we are just bystanders in early pregnancy. Nothing you do or don't do will have caused a miscarriage. If you have miscarried, it was absolutely not your fault.

Lots of love OP xx

we are just bystanders in early pregnancy. This is so true. Everything is out of your control in early pregnancy, and also out of doctor’s control.

It does sound like you have miscarried on this occasion. It’s worth taking another test in a couple of days, but I think I would prepare for the fact that this particular pregnancy may not have been viable.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this, and that you’re so upset.