Hiya, my son had this too, sorry can't remember the measurements but it was pretty mild. It was picked up at the 20 week scan where they initially said it was one kidney but it was actually both.
They said to me it wasn't a big issue and he might just need antibiotics when he was born. I was referred to fetal medicine and had very frequent scans after that (partly because they suspected he would be a big baby)
The kidneys never really went down but were just above what was normal.
When he was born he was scanned about 2 weeks later and they said all was fine, though still larger than average. He wasn't given antibiotics.
I actually can't remember if he was scanned when he was born....seems like they would...but I genuinely can't remember it happening.
I was always told that if my son was ill with unexplained fever, I should always mention this issue as it could be related to a urine infection.
He has been scanned a few times since then and I think will now be discharged (He is 18 months)
I read all the soft marker info too (scared myself silly) and as long as there are no other significant markers for Downs syndrome, its just something that is slightly more likely in someone with DS rather than a sign of it...if that makes sense.
One thing that was reassuring was finding out my friends son had the same and it was only discovered at birth. He had the antibiotics and was fine.
Good luck, I'm sure everything will be fine x