Loss of early pregnancy symptoms at 3 weeks 5 days help

[Berrydoor284]

Ok paranoid person alert something I never thought I’d be. Desperately trying to not allow this to trigger my bipolar (which pregnancy has never done and I’m
Normally so well and functioning).

But my pregnancy symptoms have gone! :( I was wondering if any one can tell me good or bad what their outcome was with this kind of thing? Or offer any science as to why this might happen?

First cycle TTC and so first time using early pregnancy tests. It’s taken me over two years to try again after a twin M/C which nearly cost me my life and future chances of having a baby.

So by my ovulation test which fits in with my normal cycle data I am 3 weeks 4 days pregnant. First time using early tests normally I test when period is late either on the day or a few days after so I can’t say that I’m used to knowing I’m pregnant this early on. I don’t think I normally get symptoms till around 4.5 - 5 weeks so new to me and I can’t trust myself anymore due to paranoia (lost two sets of twins and a single now and the last loss tipped me over the edge evidently).

Using first response tests I got a BFP on the 10th my period is due on the 15th. So 5 days before period.. it was a big fat lovely beautiful pink one :) backed up by clear blue digital saying pregnant 1-2 weeks., all adds up With ovulation date. The day before on the FR test I got a visible but not solid line the day before that a weak need line eyes to see it but there. So progression was good..

3 days before the test my boobs started to get sore and the pain was very significant and yesterday and the day before was horrid soreness but I was loving it. Gave me hope! Today nothing!! I’m So scared!

I’ve googled I’ve searched this platform and I’m trying to be calm but I don’t know.. a lot of MC resources are telling me this is bad!!! But I wondered if I could get some real life accounts off here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

What scares me is the covid situation putting me at risk again to pass a twin pregnancy at home. Out of 7 pregnancies 3 have been twins with a single loss at 9 weeks.. I am classed as high risk for twins now. Normally I would have early scans now because of this but covid has seen it be emergencies only.. I’m not classed as emergency thankfully and I’d never lie to get seen so I have to wait it out hence why I’m here :)
GPS can’t do bloods as no bottles. With my twin losses my body hangs on till 12 weeks and over and thankfully one of them losses was medically managed sadly an EPU unit that is nurse led in 2019 saw some fatal errors that nearly cost me my life… so I’m
So scared history may repeat. That I will have to go through a loss at home again with our nearest hospital being 28 miles away from me..

As is life my hours at work were cut for the past 9 months by half and I was let go 2 months ago :( so money is so tight I can’t book an early scan as every penny is accounted for. I start a new job In 4 weeks and will be paid 3 weeks after so we will be ok in the end. OH work has picked back up again after 9 months of not knowing where we are we are going to be ok but it means a reassurance scan privately isn’t an option. I wish it was.

The NHS said they MIGHT see me at 9 weeks but will possibly just make sure my dating scan is around ten weeks “best they can do”

I’m working real hard to calm down and get rational but I do have PTSD from literally waking up in hospital with drains and tubes losing two days of my life then the reality of what saw me there hit in. I’ve had private therapy for the last 13 months and I’m doing good.. but this loss of symptoms which it deffo is has sent me on a fast downward spiral so quickly!
I am actually a psychologist myself so you would think I’d be getting myself sorted but NO! I’m a mess..

Thanks In advance if you have read this far.. and seriously if you have a bad experience please share too. It won’t make me feel worse.

I still want to frequently urinate and still getting my ligament stabs around my tummy which I know is normal for me. Never been a sicky pregnant person so can’t go off that

But my boobs went from don’t touch me to I can swing them around…. prod! Poke! Squeeze! AND have a small child dance on them with no issues at all 😂😂🙈🙈

Thanks ladies xxxxxx

To add I do have four Holstein here on earth
A daughter
Twin boys
A daughter

But I’ve never really over analysed early pregnancy before so I can’t trust myself. My past losses symptoms did fade but that was a case where they were clearly developing them suddenly stopped snd I just didn’t feel pregnant. Never had this in any of my to term Pregnancies where I was paranoid like this :(

That's a lot to go through. If you were to miscarry at this stage it would be classed as a chemical pregnancy and would probably be similar or only slightly heavier than a normal period. I'm not saying that is what is happening just to elevate your worries it would be nothing like at 9week loss.
Symptoms can come and go so it's not necessarily bad news. All you can do at this stage is wait. You wouldn't see anything in a scan at 4weeks and would need to wait until 6weeks. At which point you could book a private scan if you've been paid by then? Or ask if nhs will see you.
It's all a waiting game unfortunately. Try not to worry and good luck.

I've never had consistent pregnancy symptoms until more like 6 weeks (And I never actually got sore boobs at all anyway!) I had one 1st trimester mc, and the warning sign was that 2 weeks after I took the first digi test, it was still saying 1-2 weeks. I subsequently had a successful pregnancy where I lost all symptoms for about 3 days at about 9 weeks, and I was certain I was losing it again, but 4 days later I was back with my head down the loo.

I don't think I'd read too much into symptoms this early on. Also, if you're not careful, you can spend as much on tests as on a scan!

Blooming heck, you've been through the mill, no wonder you're so stressed! Sorry for everything you've been through. First thing is that pregnancy symptoms can come and go, and they often feel less obvious when you're stressed. Secondly, it is very early. Many women won't even have symptoms until 6 weeks. Plenty of time for them to kick back in with a vengeance. It's probably too early to get any guarantees of early scans, but in a couple of weeks, if things are still progressing (touch wood) then it would be worth asking again. Remind them of what you've been through, your risks, explain what a deleterious effect it is having on your mental health. Whatever happens, best of luck to you, I really hope it goes well

It wasn’t a sticky :(

I have no idea how I know..

Back to TTC again! Thanks for the reply’s

@Berrydoor284

It wasn’t a sticky :(

I have no idea how I know..

Back to TTC again! Thanks for the reply’s

I'm sorry, fingers crossed for the next one

Just logging my journey so others who may search can see how it plays out..

Fmu test = not pregnant..,

A more diluted urine sample = pregnant.

This happened with my twin pregnancy that resulted in live twinny babies!!
It did this in the midwives office too around 4-5 weeks with that pregnancy. She couldn’t believe it. I have since it happened to me last time found a few twin mums who have had this at the many twin groups I cross paths with.

Not for one second getting my hopes up..

The scientist in me now is kicking in. I accept a loss may be coming hopefully a chemical that will come and go..

But how strange that history is repeating.

I am now waiting for my period due in 2-3 days. Take it from there. I Will wait a week after that and if no bleeding hopefully get to see a doctor..

With me losing symptoms and now a negative test I’m not hopeful but I will keep this thread updated so it may help others..

This is not pregnant with bone dilute hormone
And pregnant with..

Then

First morning urine faint line

More dilute fatter line..

Have you had your period now? Otherwise how do you know you're not pregnant?

Mine disappeared and came back a few days later and of course I googled this and was panicking but apparently this is normal.

Sadly a chemical but period came 2 days latter I was going to leave this cycle out but decided to try again… got flashing smiles on my CBD say curation test which is following flo app predicted cycle behaviour..

Hope it’s a sticky! I never seem to have issues conceiving it’s the sticking :(

I think for me I can safely say a loss of symptoms and just having this sense of knowing dies indicate loss for me now!

Never has that sense in any of my live births only in my losses. I know that maybe worrying about loss can effect the way we think and feel and over analyse but it’s hard for me to put into words how I just get this feeling of loss and every time I have been right.

I will never early test again that’s for sure. Not for me that!

I just know… sadly it was a chemical!

It’s a strange feeling one I can’t easily put into words but I’ve lost three pregnancies now and it just screams at me on each of those occasions that the pregnancy isn’t viable.

Never had it with my four other children not even a fleeting thought. But I have had it in my three losses..

A little update.. so BFP the next month.. I wasn’t hopeful to be honest. So was just riding the waves. I did decide to check progress with clear blue digital with weeks.. doesn’t cause me any stress I face I could get a sticky! I might not. I can’t change that.

I noticed this time though my week indicator went from 1-2.,, then a few days latter 2-3 and then I hit 3+… I know a search on CBD indicating miscarriage is hit and miss but I chose to go with it!

A called my GP to get some meds sorted.. The next thing this wonderful human said I’m going to give gyne at a hospital a ring, let me ring you back. Next thing I’m invited down that evening. I have some tests done, some bloods and then I got called asking if I’d like an early pregnancy care package due to my pregnancy history 😳😳😳.. I said yes of course.

I had a scan at 5 weeks and all correlated with HCG and dates then a scan at 6 where we saw great growth and a heart beat.. and HCG increasing lovely. I have another scan in a week where I will be 8 weeks.

I have to say though for anyone coming across this post that my symptoms which are only ever breasts comes and goes still! I also had this god awful cramping inside my vagina week 3-5! Only had that last month in my early loss. Had a few days of tiredness but not much. Done bloating but that’s not new for me. So how accurate are early symptoms? Or symptoms in general?

I do believe that they very much can indicate an issue they always have for me. But this time so far so good and my boobs aren’t really that obvious or constant. So who knows!

I am absolutely ignoring my body though and taking it day by day! Otherwise I will send myself mad! 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈